what should I do in this situation?

this might be a little long,i’m completely confused on what I should do and I would like to hear some feedback pls. i’ve been online friends with this girl that I had met on a friend app about almost 2 years ago. from the start we had an on and off again friendship due to her BF supposedly not wanting her to have friends and he specifically didn’t like her talking to me. We were pretty close and she would tell me pretty much everything and I would do the same to her and I’m guessing he did not like what I had to say about him.idk if he was reading our messages or if she was telling him everything, but for the past two years on and off, she has told me she couldn’t speak to me due to her BF not liking me so we would go for maybe weeks or a few months without speaking, and sometimes I would reach out to her to see how she’s doing or she would reach out to me It’s kind of a lot.🤣 but fast forward to a few months ago we haven’t spoken in five months because the last time I had talked to her, she told me that she was sorry, but she can’t speak to me anymore because her BF does not want her talking to me so I wished her the best and stop speaking to her fast-forward five months in August. I decided I miss her and I reached out to see how she was doing and she ended up messaging me back right away, but it didn’t seem like a happy text. She seemed upset with me for not speaking to her, but she was the one that had requested. I stop speaking to her. We ended up getting into a little argument about the circumstances, but we decide OK. We can make this friendship work out not even a week later she messages me saying that she’s sorry she’s been busy with work and she hasn’t been talking to me, but she misses me a lot and I replied to her a few hours later, but I got no response from her. I messaged her at least five or six time asking if she’s OK and what’s going on I wasn’t friends with her on snap at the time, but I even added her and reached out to her on there and soon as I messaged her she posted to her story said she has it on public so I felt like maybe that was a slap in the face because she was clearly ignoring me. She hadn’t reached out to me for a whole month and just a day ago she texted me saying. “”Hey girl I know you might not wanna hear from me at all. I was having problems with my bf and well I didn’t wanna leave but it was bad :( “” I haven’t replied to her yet because I’m not sure what to do anymore with this friendship why must I have to deal with someone who has to keep on disappearing from my life and on top of that I just accidentally called her number😭😭 I have no idea what to do please help