She came back talking about children 22m and 22f, what would they do?

i dated this girl briefly. From the very start, she was completely hot and cold: sometimes showering me with gifts, other times saying things like, “maybe we should break up” or “you should just download a dating app and find someone else.”

When I ended things, I found her on a dating app. She claimed she was only there “looking for her friend’s ex.” She never wanted to take pictures with me, didn’t let me visit her, and kept me at arm’s length emotionally.

Then, months after the breakup, out of nowhere, she showed up at my apartment uninvited. We started talking again and almost hooked up but without protection. In that moment, she told me "I can't force you" "We'll give grandchildren to your parents" she could poke holes in my condoms because she “wanted to be a mom.”

(Maybe to tease me?)uploaded and deleted suspicious photos with “friends,” and constantly asked me for gifts or favors. If I said no, she’d reply, “my friend will do it for me.”

Later, she admitted she had been dating another guy months earlier but broke up because of “insecurity.” She invited me over again, called me “love,” and when I confronted her about all the mixed signals, she basically said she was “at peace,” had no fault in anything, and I should “move on.”

Now she posts cryptic videos about “overcoming obstacles” and how she “wants to be a mother,” then deletes them when I see them. She also sent me a message saying it’s “not worth going back to me” and tried calling again. I didn’t answer.

She hasn’t deleted my contact yet.

WTF just happened? She called me to go to her house, said goodbye and hours later called me?

TL;DR: I briefly dated a girl who was hot-and-cold from the start sometimes affectionate, sometimes pushing me away. After I ended things, she showed up uninvited months later, tried to hook up without protection, and made bizarre comments about wanting kids and poking holes in condoms. She constantly posts cryptic messages about motherhood, deletes them, asks for gifts, and gives mixed signals. She also dated someone else during this time but still contacts me and hasn’t deleted my number. Confusing, manipulative, and emotionally exhausting what just happened?