23 [M4F] Want a Long-term Romantic Girlfriend

Dating / Relationship

Hey there trying posting again here in Reddit a third time (or eighth shots), ngsb here seeking love to find my match online to have a first relationship, I've never had a girlfriend in years I haven't been in a relationship before and stayed single mostly because of focus on my studies. Now I’m locked in, Ready to link up with someone who vibes on my level with same values, open to a genuine connection. I want a partner who is serious and interested in long-term relationship if were compatible. Hopefully we can grow together inevitably fall in love with. I'm up for any kinds of dates whether its movie and coffee or fun sponty dates what works best for me, hopefully the same goes for you. If you seem to be the right one send a message my dm's are open if your interested.

About Me:

  • Age: 23 Years old.
  • Location: I reside in City of Manila.
  • Assets: Don't have a car, yacht or own a place yet so I'm limited can't go far to where I'm at.
  • Educational Background: Came from a third-rate university not from Big 4 nor Harvard.
  • Occupation: IT College Student.
  • Family: Only Child in my family.
  • Physical Appearance: I have a slim build, standing at 5'4" (162 cm) with a healthy normal BMI around 59 kg. I have a nice youthful Moreno in appearance with brown skin complexion, often wearing glasses and embracing a casual, decent style in clothing..
  • Lifestyle: I’m a low-key homebody, no cigs, no tats, and I hardly ever hit the bottle maybe a drink if the mood’s legit. I prioritize hygiene and live a vice-free life, staying active with regular outdoor walks by being very healthy and knows how to take care of myself, I don't get fat easily due to my high metabolism.
  • Religion: Roman Catholic I go to church with my dad or pray by myself there sometimes. Roman Catholic I go to church with my dad or pray by myself there sometimes, I'm equally respecting others' viewpoints and beliefs.
  • Personality: Introverted I’m that quiet dude in the corner, just chilling with my own thoughts. Takes me a minute to warm up, but once I’m in my zone, I’m yapping away, cracking jokes, I'm Ambitious and adaptable as water. Calm, confident and quiet, optimistic through grit a little bit nonchalant and just a very open and honest person very straightforward with my intentions and is secured with himself.
  • Communication: I’m down for texts or calls, pick your poison you prefer to choose. I can adjust too but please to talk to me about your needs and I'll do the same.
  • Jokes: Any kinds of humor like a chameleon, can adjusts to the person I'm talking to. If you're corny, I'll play along with you.
  • Goals: I’ve got a stack of plans for the future of myself. But looking forward to the two of us.
  • Date Setup: 50:50 it is.
  • Love languages: I express giving love through gifts, physical touch, acts of service, and quality time freely, while we may have preferences, our needs are dynamic and changes over time I'd happily stretch to all five love languages if that's what you need, no complaints just adapting to make it work for you even if it pushes my comfort zone.
  • Child Hood Days: Grew up in cartoons when flash games are a thing like Miniclip, Newgrounds, Y8 and Friv, watches Pewdiepie, DanTDM, Markiplier and Jacksepticay, been into Friendster, listens to Myx and Videokeman days.
  • Friends: Small circle of friends, I would like to keep it that way and stays true.
  • Pet: I’m a straight-up doggo stan, 100% team canine.
  • Foodies: I do love pastas, footlongs, hamburgers, donuts, calamares and lobster hit different too.
  • Sports: I do ice skating and billiards.
  • Music: Audiophile I listened to all kinds.
  • Hobbies and Interests: Audiobooks, Video Games, Anime & Manga, TV Series & Movies, silly memes and funny jokes, theatre and orchestral plays.
  • Free Leisure Time: Doing 3D modeling stuff, playing Gacha Games on laptop, surfing 4Chan when bored and watching videos on you tube or pirating things in general.
  • Socials: Has Discord, Spotify, Twatter, Facebook, Reddit, and MyAnimeList don't have Telegram, Snapchat, Viber, WeChat, BlueSky & TikTok sadly.

Pros of Having Me:

  • Loyal like a doge meme holding strong.
  • Zero drama doesn’t sweat the petty BS small stuff.
  • Stays up all night for epic gaming sessions.
  • Can hack your heart with nerd charm.
  • No ego doesn’t need constant validation.
  • Always online for your midnight rants.
  • Rides your weird tangents without blinking.

Cons of Having Me:

  • Responses delayed by server lag.
  • Broke af no cash for fancy dates.
  • Third-rate uni grad might lack flex.
  • Probably simps for 2D waifus unironically.

Preferences and Values:

  • I came from a family with a preference for a catholic partner. Personally I'm not overly religious.
  • I'm looking for someone who’s on my wavelength with similar values.
  • Open minded and that has positive outlook on life.

What I'm looking For:

  • Be kind.
  • Faith and long-term commitment.
  • Having that person around is comfortable or exciting and not too annoying shouldn't be a chore, I prefer it to be balanced and trustworthy.

About You:

  • Female.
  • Normal BMI.
  • Ages 21-26.
  • Metro Manila.
  • Any height would do
  • You're studying, working or both.
  • Not a Rental Girlfriend its an automatic pass for me.
  • Decent looks honestly the women doesn't have to be hot.
  • Single, I don't wanna get jumped outta nowhere beaten up then got banished straight to the shadow realm, haha.

I'm looking for a long-term relationship. And please, no plain "Hi" or "Hello" in messages, I want to get to know you right from the start. Hit me with a real intro, spill some tea about yourself. Let’s see if we can make something click, so bring your A-game and let’s roll.

Posted Oct 2, 2025, 1:52 PM UTC

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