39 [m4f] #California lunch time, are you a snack?

I am 39 years old, married in the #pst. I don't know how I ended up here, but after about 2 years of feeling like a roommate and having scheduled sex, feeling unappreciated.... I've reached my breaking point. 6 foot 5. Bearded. Shaved head. Bigger build, more of a nfl lineman build. I enjoy going to the gym to pick the heavy things up. I am career driven and work my ass off. My marriage used to be kinky and spontaneous, never left feeling hungry for more. Now a days things are much different, much more vanilla if you will. Being dominant and adventurous my appetite is left for much more. I'm a huge stand up comedy fan. Sports addict(in the geek kinda way), wish I paid attention to science or business the way I engraved my brain with useless statistics(no I don't lol). Not scared to swap pics early. telegram is preferred if there's mutual attraction.