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27 [F4M] The Netherlands - Looking for a serious relationship

F4M Netherlands

Hello! My name is Nicole, I’m 27 years old, and I live with my Ragdoll cat, Niko, in Drenthe, The Netherlands. 

I enjoy cooking a lot. I mostly eat gluten free and sugar free, so I make my own breads, spreads, I also tried making yoghurt for a while (but kinda failed), cakes, and I do meal prepping so I don’t have to choose what to eat every day. Aside from that, I also enjoy playing video games and watching tv shows/movies. Mostly cozy, not too scary or challenging stuff. I also currently enjoy working out on my at home bike and singing along to music at the same time.

One important fact about me is that I have autism. I get help for that a few times a week, and I also get disability money, but I do work (for no money) at a farm in the kitchen once or twice a week, preparing food, just like I do at home. 

I'm quite short (160CM) and curvy, I got that cute tummy going for me. Blue eyes, dark blonde hair, and pale, but usually with red cheeks. I'm not posting a picture because I don't see a reason to. Looks are just looks, personality is more important.

Anyway, the reason why I’m posting this is because I barely go out, so it’s not like I get to meet random people and date. I’m most definitely a homebody. Dating apps aren’t my thing either. What I’m mostly looking for in a guy: 

  • understanding, empathic, patient, and kind 
  • open minded, as in being open to other people’s opinions and feelings even though it’s not your cup of tea 
  • considers doing the groceries together a cute little date (even though we both hate it). in fact, considers most things we do together a date. aka: just happy with the little things in life
  • knows how to take care of themselves
  • lives nearby Drenthe, so I don’t have to travel far because I don’t own a driver’s license
  • doesn’t have or want children in the future, biological or adopted
  • age: 27-40 
  • a bonus: would choose cats over any animal any day 

Feel free to send me a message and introduce yourself if you're interested! Have a wonderful day :)

Posted Oct 2, 2025, 8:01 PM UTC · locked

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