Hyper niche- but i hate that people tell me the only way i could ever be loved is by someone who’s polyamorous

I was diagnosed with DID (Dissociative Identity Disorder) a while ago and i have been active in DID forums ever since. One thing that i see pretty often and that drives me up the fucking WALL is how polyam people stalk those forums to say a) the only way people like us can be in a healthy relationship is to be with them or b) that being in a relationship with someone with DID automatically makes you polyam 🤢🤢🤢 its incredibly ableist in my opinion and treats us like were some shiny pokemon created just for them!!! Theres so many issues i take with it. its predatory behavior to say traumagenic people can only be tolerated by a certain group- and also its a HUGE ableist stereotype that takes away people like me’s individuality and autonomy.🤦🤦🤦 i hate these people there is no reprieve from poly drama