Getting so frustrated with endocrinologist team

I had a call from dietitian Tuesday and told her I wasn’t eating hardly any carbs in the morning like literally 8g and she said she wanted me to up them for 2 days and said when I sent in my numbers yesterday the diabetes team would up my meal time insulin to combat that if the numbers were spiked and just to leave a note on my email for them.

Did exactly that and they’ve left me a voicemail to tell me my morning insulin was staying the same. Wtf, I feel like they didn’t both reading my email and like how can it stay the same when last 2 readings on it were 9.5 and 9.1, this morning I had 13g of carbs for breakfast and it’s at 9.0, can’t seem to get through to them to discuss it either, this is ridiculous. I’m 32 weeks and feel like they’re fine to have me constantly spike?

So I contacted them and she said oh well give it a few days of eating those recommended carbs on the insulin we’ve given you and resend numbers on Monday morning & we will go from there. I said ok so you guys are ok for me to spike for 4 days in a row that high and she said yes….. my head is melted with this shit and I’ve been doing it for 19 weeks now