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Gay trans men in all male cruising spaces

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Hey so I've been considering attending some of the local bars and saunas in my town (the types with darkrooms, playrooms, gloryholes etc).

I pass pretty well even in just a towel or underwear, usually a good thing but I'm kind of nervous about guys assuming I have a dick and then being weird about it. I'm post top but pre any bottom surgery.

All these places specify men only but several of them clearly clarify that trans men are absolutely included in that. So I'm not necessarily worried about being in the wrong place. Just wondering if it would make my own life easier to flag in some way that I'm trans?

Does anybody else have any experience of this?

Posted Oct 3, 2025, 9:45 AM UTC

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