At my wits enddd!!

Baby just turned 11 months old. I initially started BLW at 6 months for a month and gave up due to travelling etc . I restarted BLW just before she turned 10 months . I did use screen to get her to eat more but only last week I stopped this. Generally she's not a foodie . First 2 weeks reintroducing BLW she threw most and smeared it all over herself (happy days!) but I knew that was expected . Then she suddenly started eating bites and got better at pincer grasp. Just beginning of last week it's all downhill again. She started walking last week did have a cold so I excused that . This week she's just refusing breakt . I do get her off highchair and try 30 mins later but still sane thing and I offer meals first then milk. Milk intake isn't that high i'd say about 15oz in total. She's very active girl, wanting to get off the highchair after a few minutes.

I make all her meals from scratch and just feel like I'm wasting my time. I honestly want to cry I feel all alone in this. I'm having to run the house by myself even though my partner is here . He's just part of the furniture.

What advice can you give for baby who is active like this? I did try feeding her but she rarely eats from me and likes to feed herself (when she actually used to eat) . I even thought let me sit her down on sofa and feed her but still sane thing.

I just want her to stop this phase but I feel like it will only get worse since she's now walking.