[F4A] #nyc looking for queer switches

Hi! I'm 35, pansexual genderqueer afab in nyc. I'm short and cute, long time reddit user, I don't really understand these labels for myself but i guess im chapstick femmeish. Looking to connect with queer/nonbinary/transmasc people. I truly enjoy all body types and have plenty of experience, although there is always more to learn :) 30+ only . I'm switchy, and want to explore and practice more power play/rope/impact with someone who has good communication skills. Please be patient w my responses, I'm a (solo) parent.