36 [M4F] #California #Online Nerdy Golden Retriever Boyfriend seeking Nerdy Girlfriend

Hi! Hello! My name is Cris, and I'm here on reddit trying to find my Nerdy GF because dating apps have been rough and exhausting!

A bit about me:
I'm 36 years old
From California
I'm kind, caring, and bubbly. Golden Retriever Energy is probably the best phrase to use. I'm loyal, and if you're freaky I'll bark for you.
Neurodivergent so I yap a lot about things I'm passionate about/hyperfixated on.
I workout 3 times a week, drink my water and go to therapy.
Physically I am 5'11" and in terms of shape I'm "fit but not ripped".
I'm really nerdy and very passionate about it. I'm into anime, manga, gaming and cosplay! My old gig used to be working for comic and anime conventions as a photographer and videographer. Nerd culture is a big part of me, feel free to ask about it!
Also just got into Magic The Gathering and that has been an adventure!
Music is another thing I really enjoy and I'm currently obsessed with Laufey, Tyler The Creator, Good Kid, and Sabrina Carpenter . I love making playlists, so if we vibe I will craft one specifically for you.

What I'm looking for:
A woman between the ages of 26-45
Must be nerdy and have some common interests.
I love assertive women, and really appreciate someone who's both strong (emotionally) and caring. You don't have to be bubbly and outgoing like me, so if you're more on the introverted side, as long as you don't mind my vibe I'm fine!

I'll be upfront and say now physical attraction is important to me, but I'm into a little bit of everything: Thick and thin. Chubby and Muscular. I love it all! Please be willing to exchange photos in the first few messages, and I will do the same. If you aren't my type, I promise I won't be rude about. I know some people can behave... poorly at times.

Anyways, this was really long but I like to put myself out there to make sure I can find what I'm looking for :]

If you made it to the end, message me a little about yourself! It doesn't need to be a essay like my post, but more then a "hello. Whats up? How are you?" would be nice. Tell me what stood out on my profile, or let me know if we have anything in common!

Posted Oct 3, 2025, 5:10 PM UTC

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