Want to know if im in the right saying this

Iv been dating this girl for a year now, we found each other on a dating website. Technically we are in a long distance relationship, as its 2 hours drive to reach one of us. Iv driven to meet her 3 times now and each time is a small get together at a Starbucks she feels comfortable at, most of the time she talk about how her life is going and the struggles she is dealing with, and I listen tentatively. Most of the time im the one starting conversations and asking about her day or wishing her a good morning, but lately iv felt like this is one sided and I always leave room for her to ask me about mine and she doesn't really seem interested.

How do I ask her that I want more from her without sounding needy?