54 [M4F] #PST I've no dead bedroom problems

I'm also not lonely, not going out of my mind, not missing anything. There...honest enough for you?

I'm also not desperate in trying to push conversation and details out of the first person that contacts me either.

I'm here to charge up my own vanity and mojo. I'm old fashioned when it comes to being social, I think that what we call "social media" should be called "anti-social media" because those that use it a lot are clueless in knowing how to make good conversation happen with real people who speak with real thought and try to type out well intentioned thought using proper sentences, grammar and the odd Oxford comma thrown into the read.

I want to talk a whole lot more about other stuff than the careers, our family dynamics, the weather and the world's negativity. I'd rather divert thought into something nice and encouraging, create that sense of calm and goodness where making a new connection can be wonderful for us both. If we want to bear our souls or go deeper than the surface issues, we can be hear each other out, be that shoulder for the other to lean on.

What I want from the fantastic woman that is going to read this is to pretty much be somebody that can surprise me to have me think why are you on this site? I want her to be communicative, somebody that can write a little more, be a little more personal than something 25 words or less. I also do want her to NOT to be an introvert, in real life she is this confident, social, stylish woman with that feminine presence that gets things done in her work life yet turns the men's heads when you are close by.

I'm a north west coast transplant of 20 years originally born on the prairies. 5-foot-11, blue eyes, greying white beard, intelligent, articulate, healthy and not a slouch. I'm not a suit and tie guy but I don't look like I've fallen off a skateboard or dug a ditch when I'm in public. I'm a wine and whiskey drinker, I try to be kind and supporting to those I want to let into my circle of contacts and friends. Hockey is my sport and something of a weekend religion much like people have with football on a Sunday. TO listen to my iPod on Shuffle (yes, I still use one) and the range of rock music from the 70s to the millennium is now the classic rock that gives me some adrenaline rush.

So what about ever looming notion of romantic expectations, here's where I say that I can be quite happy for making a connection where flirting and the R-rated stuff is not part of the immediate expectation. I'm not depressed or dead, I still have a romantic mind bordering on the dirty at times, but I'm not some horny animal desperately needing a flood of feels. That does not mean I will not stop you that if your vanity and mojo needs to be tuned up by taking selfies for me to see with the harmless flirting that ensues.

I want to like whom I am messaging so please say something, and tell me your name if you say hello. The closer you are to the PNW the more front of the line you'll get.

And no disrespect to those half my age, but I'm not interested in talking with you.