30 [F4M] SEA, open to any. Looking for a genuine connection.

Heyy! Never posted sth like this before, almost feels embarrassing.

I'm from a SEA country. Agnostic. Came from a religious background. Did a 180 and never looked back.

I LOVE movies. Fav genre: thriller, mystery, horror (mainly Asian horrors). Love the series Arcane, Mad Men, Fleabag, The Bear, the movies Perfect Blue, Coherence, Good Will Hunting, Uncut Gems, Frances Ha, all of Wong Kar Wai's, so many more.

Currently reading Crime & Punishment. Love Nietzsche, Simone de Beauvoir. Feels very performative and fake to mention these. I don't know MANY movies or books, I just have seen the famous ones tbh. Ideal night is staying at home, playing board games or watching a movie or two or binge watch a series with friends/partner.

Have a few small circles of friends but spend a lot of time with them - at least once or several nights a week.

I prefer video calls > text > voice call -- in that order. Love receiving flowers but will never ask for it. Just a singular flower can easily make my whole week.

Love cats and dogs. Have 2 cats. Would like to have goats someday. Living in the city tho so most likely isn't happening soon lol.

Physically; medium build (whatever that means -- 21.4 BMI, about 158-159 cm). Black hair, fair-tanned skin. I hit the gym 3-5 times a week. Never eating enough protein tho so can't see much gain lol.

Looking for someone who's honest and family-oriented. Who knows what they want and has the capacity to go after it. So many people move on way too quick, esp given how easy it is to meet new people (like how we're posting these posts here). We leave too fast. If we don't immediately feel the spark, we throw it away. If we start to feel bored, we don't try to explore and get to know each other further. I mean you do you, but if that sounds like you, we probably won't make a good match. I believe all connections/relationships need to be maintained and nurtured for some time to see if it can really blossom into sth deeper.

Sorry to end this post like that! But I'm actually very very hopeful that there are many like me out there. :)