Am I the kameena here as I just wanted to clarify a miss communication ?

Met someone talked for few days, when we talked sometimes around 6-7 hours whole night, I asked if she wamted to go to a temple together, she declined, I said ok I will go for both of us, god sometimes listens to me I will ask him to solve your problem, will bring prashan for u as well. She ignored me after that. finally called her after 3 days asked what happened, she replied she is not looking for a relationship, I said I didn't mean it that way. Said sorry if my message sounded weird. tried to explain to her. I said lets just put this aside and continue talking the way we used. she said she will think about it, next day she said she is going out of town for some work and will think about it. I tried to explain my pov but didn't work. I later messaged her happy and safe journey and hope her problems get solved.

Just shared a yt video after 2 days, something related to her work, again 2 days later asked if where was she and texted hope everything got resolved . convo ended with again saying problem will get resolved.

5 days later got a text from her that everything got solved. replied but couldn't reply properly as display was flickering. Replied 2 days after explaining the things, said welcome back and asked few normal convo questions. ended with all's well if it ends well.

Next day I tried to have a normal convo, asked her if she wants to listen to a shayari, she said yes, sent her a voice note, no reply for 2-3 hrs, thought it might be bad, texted her the same, suggested a song, asked if I could met her today.

she denied I respected that. later at night I sent her few texts explaining how it was a miss communication and I just wanted to explain this to her person nothing much. I even added that I know that once she has decided on something she would not change her mind but atleast give me a chance to explain.

A mutual friend came to see me. That guy told me in a friendly manner that I should stop texting her and she is not ready for a relationship. And I was like when did I propose to her ?? I was not texting the same thing again again. He said I was irritating her by texting again and again. And I am like how the fuck did I take her space ? And she was responding to the msgs, she could have just told me to stop, I would have. but making me villan in this whole story making me looking like a creep that is harassing some girl. I am like how the fuck !? what the fuck !? Atleast have some guts to say it on the face. And we talked a lot and even after that if she can't say that to me that she needs space, even as a friend.

She broke my trust by involving that guy (he already has a gf ands says he treats her like sister). I don't even want to see her face again. but if I did something wrong I want to know and change that.

Am the kameena here ?

tldr - met someone, lots of good convo, a small miss communication, made me villan that is irritaing her, involved a third guy to communicate this to me