AIO I (31m) and my fiance (F25) went on our first oversees holiday and I got sick and she said she was going to leave me in hospital
It's not our first holiday together but it was our first one overseas I feel like it went really well until the last 2 to 3 days. I started to get the runs which I had initially attributed to getting on the beers at my mates wedding but it when it didn't clear up I swapped to only water and light meals.
On fight back to hour home to Australia we stopped in Queensland for a 24 hours before getting a next flight home and it was not until 10pm so we had about a day and half between flights.
We get back to the hotel and I begin to start feeling sick again so I went straight to bed about 6pm The next morning I work up and I've never felt so weak before in my life and with no way to get myself to an emergency department I asked my partner to call an ambulance when she said she didn't want to do that it's to scary which is okay I just called them myself and told them the situation and they said this probably best some comes check me out and take me to hospital. Once the paramedics get to our hotel room she tells them I just have alcohol poisoning and that it's nothing, I hadn't been drinking for the last 48 hours I didn't drink very heavily even at the wedding. Meanwhile I have a fever pushing 38.8 Celsius so they took me to hospital.
In the hospital I was put on an IV for pretty severe dehydration. I told her if I have to stay the night in observation and it's nothing serious she would be okay to fly home with out me. When the doctors told me it might be more like a few days and I let her know that maybe she should look at staying a bit longer and trying to sort out our flight she just told me that she's leaving with or with our me.
The doctors ended up letting me catch my flight we have had talk about what happen a few weeks later once I had recovered. because I felt like when I really needed her she just wanted to bail.
She has her own small business and I get that it's important to her and I've always been supportive and proud of her. I know shejust wanted to get back to running it. But I just felt so abandon by her even though it didn't come to that in the end.
I've gone from loving her so much and being excited to see her at the end of the day when I get home from work to not even wanting to be in the same room as her I'm trying to see if we can work things out.
The grammar is probably terrible I'm sorry about that
Tldr my partner want to leave me in hospital in a different state to get back to her business. Even tho we still got on the same plan it felt like she was ready to abandon me. We been together 5 years and plan on getting married the end of 2026, I'm not sure I want to any more.
Posted Oct 5, 2025, 3:55 AM UTC · locked