Never see yourself as the victim

Everyone has a legitimate claim to victimhood. We have all been treated in some unfair way, but never see yourselves as the victim. When you blame others for your failures you will never grow. Everyone has lost someone, everyone has been beaten to the ground. But what makes those who we look up to as heroes, different from us is they have looked past the unfairness in life and they have moved forwards. No one who has made it anywhere in life believes they are the victim. For a long time saw myself as the victim I blame others for what I did. I still do some times, but I ask my self is this helping me? What I learn is that sabotage our self every day we tell our self were not good enough. We do things we know we would not, but we don't know why we don't stop.