Guy I met on a trip wants to come visit me, is this weird?

Guy I met on a trip wants to come visit me, is this weird?

So I went on an abroad trip through a travel company where I met this guy. We really hit it off and spent some time getting to know each other over the 7 days or so. We weren’t together 24/7 as our group trip had us in different groups. He ends up telling me he likes me and that he’d like to continue getting to know me, I said I was interested in him and would like to know him better too.

Fast forward, we go back home to the states and we’ve kept up the chat. About 3 days after being home, he’s brought up the idea of coming to see me in my town (he is about 11 hours away) and is thinking of specific plans of what we could do. He’s even brought up going to another part of my state a few hours away and having an overnight stay together. We’re both outdoorsy and he even brought up going camping and he mentioned he “has a spacious tent” 😭 I think it would be 4 day trip total. Some time in my town, and some time in the other town I mentioned. Overall, i thought it could be fun…I was still on the high of how cool the trip was and how cool all of the people were and expressed interest in him coming. but, then i got to thinking about how I’ve only really known this guy for not even a week. I’m a slow burn and prefer an emotional connection in my relationship before things go further… I do like him, but I don’t know that this is the correct way to continue. A whole 4 days with somebody I don’t really even know? Does he just want a fling?

Are you guys getting any red flags? What would you do? I’m so rusty with relationships. Should also mention I’m 26F.

Posted Oct 6, 2025, 7:05 PM UTC

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