a little thing about...bigger things

Silly little thing - talking to my wife about which electric toothbrush to bring on a trip where we have a severe baggage limit.

Note: electric toothbrush handles are inevitably phallic, especially to an immature mind like mine.

Me: "Our regular one is just a little thicker. Or 'girthier'. I suppose every little bit makes a difference." You can probably see my eyebrows going to "know what I mean? nudge-nudge?" position.

Wife: "Especially diameter."

That is literally the first time in 25 years together she's mentioned anything along the lines of "size matters." In fact, she's refused to get larger toys.

I have noticed she likes outward pressure when I finger her - being stretched. I've added a finger to the dildo and she loved it.

I don't know and don't really care if she's a size queen. Lots of guys want to see their wives railed by enormous porn-dicks, whether or not that's what their wives are into. It's an independent preference for them. What I care about is getting to know her internal erotic life. What DOES she like. If she wants a big dick, I want to know about it. If she wants a regular dick, multiple dicks, whatever it is. Probably she's not particular about dicks. What IS she into? Whatever turns her on and gets her off - THAT is what I am all about.

If she turns out to love a girthier dick, I am down to fuck her brains out with a sleeve and then follow up au natural. Or pamper her with a thicker dildo. It's still me getting her off.