43 [M4F] #Online/#Spain Dominant for submissive

About me I’m 43 years old, tall, wear glasses, with brown hair that’s starting to go gray. I lean toward being introverted. I like doing things without stress, taking time to enjoy every aspect of whatever I’m involved in. I’m comfortable talking openly and without judgment about any kind of feelings and emotions.

I’m pro-LGBTQ+ and body-positive. I believe everyone should make their own choices, so I’m not possessive and not inherently monogamous—unless we mutually agreed to be. Each person is free to choose. I always see a relationship as something based on mutual transparency.

Some might call me “poly,” or even “hippie,” but I see myself as a pragmatist who believes in the Golden Rule: “Don’t do to others what you wouldn’t want done to you.” I’m passionate about philosophy, physics, and the social sciences. Despite that, I’m not religious and I don’t get lost in Platonic or unrealistic thinking. I’m very analytical and have a grounded awareness of the world.

As a Dominant I’m a dominant/mentor/caregiver/Master/pleasure partner.

I’m very strict about establishing communication rules that are necessary for a healthy and consensual relationship. Once we agree on that, I am the dominant voice, and my partner consents to be under my control. My submissive—as part of her personality—enjoys and understands that she belongs to her Sir. This isn’t an imposition; she genuinely feels that being in that place she’s connecting fully with her deepest essence.

Among other things, my dominance requires of my submissive: obedience, good manners, sweetness, courtesy, the desire to give me pleasure, and disciplined behavior. It also requires full understanding of her role in the relationship: she is her Sir’s property.

I rarely indulge whims that aren’t backed by a disciplined behavior. On the other hand, whenever my submissive needs my attention, she has it. Silent treatment or communication void is not something I use as a form of dominance, neither feels with my personality.

I like to explore, with rawness and authenticity, things like emotions, feelings, and physical sensations, as well as exercising dominance and discipline in all aspects of my submissive’s life: well-being, intellectual, physical, and erotic...

I don’t enjoy activities that involve more than simulated or very light safe pain. I also don’t take on or demand activities that carry any kind of physical risk. I don’t live D/s as a full-time lifestyle, even if it might look that way sometimes. For me, it’s an intense dynamic that amplifies passion, pleasure, and yes, a bit of perversion.

Final words If this resonates with you, I’m open to talking about it—or about anything else you’d like to bring up. Outside of play, I’m a pretty normal guy. Don’t hesitate to message me; I’ll be happy to start a casual chat or an interesting conversation.

If you’ve made it this far, thanks for reading.