Does he like me?
There’s a guy at work. He’s conventionally attravive but he’s a “ladies man”. We can talk like buddies and he tells me about his sexual escapades etc. I always catch him staring at me when he thinks I’m not looking. And he’s always touching me in some way…! Held slap me with a piece of paper, or come over press his body into me when I’m talking to someone. I enjoy flirting with him only because I have no fantasy of us ever getting together because he seems intimately challenged.
When I like a guy, I’m usually shy. But with him, he’s like a mate I can totally me myself with, and flirt with because I don’t feel there are any stakes, on my part.
I feel there might me sexually chemistry on his part (mine too, but I feel I can’t go there as I think he’ll hurt me - not intentionally as my senses say he’s a decent guy, just can’t be serious about women.
I caught him staring at me today while I was talking to another staff member. I felt it was a stare of longing… like his face was all soft and engaged…
I feel there’s a vibe between us.. could I be wrong?
Posted Oct 6, 2025, 7:12 PM UTC