So tired of not getting a break.

Am I asking for too much? I(26F) am the stay at home mom to our 15 month old. My fiancé (26M) works long hours Monday-Friday but gets paid for it, AND gets 2 days off…..when do I get a day off? We got in a very bad argument last night, and I just said “can I go take a quick shower?” And he said “yep you go take a quick shower, after you’re done I’m gonna play video games.” So I come out and he says “I’m gonna go play video games for a bit now, I just need some time to myself after last night.” MIND YOU IM NOT EVEN DRESSED, teeth aren’t brushed, hair is wet and not brushed, and I said “well when do I get time to myself….i never get a go to take your time shower, go upstairs and just reset or do something for you” I used to but he never does that for me anymore.

He says and I quote “well yesterday was spent arguing and a whole life of time wasting” and goes upstairs and closes the door leaving me to entertain to our teething 15 month old once again. He’s a completely different person after we’ve had a baby and I’m SICK of it. This is why partners divorce.