I have (had?) this sub who was one of my first senders when I started back in April. He was a devoted sub, consistent, and obedient (sometimes) but wasn’t the biggest sender of all the subs I had at the time. he would like to do small sends, or rather beg for them. he works a minimum wage job in his early 20’s and has the most adorable whimper I’ve ever heard. 

This was (is?) my favorite sub because he truly cares about and loves me. he’s very devoted to me, but he started to falter a bit. I believe personal issues started to affect the way he served me, he acknowledged them and still professed his need to serve me, and the fact it was so hard to stay away from me. He wants to be my live in sub, but I told him he’d have to earn such a privilege. Paragraphs of him professing how much he wants to serve me at home, and do everything for me so I don’t want for anything. My birthday was approaching and he was starting to fail to be consistent and devoted in the way he once was. Soon the communication stopped. I was so sad. He just recently reached out to me and apologized for ghosting me. I was happy to hear from him but I’m uncertain of how to proceed. I was hurt by being ghosted. I want to rekindle our dynamic again but I also want to do it differently. Would you girls have any suggestions or advice given what I told you on what could be done differently moving forward for a mutually beneficial dynamic? have you ever had to that? 

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