how does one engage in physical non-sexual intimacy with men when they don’t trust men. at all.

after being cheated on this year by the person i was convinced was the healthiest partner i’d ever had, i’m finding it very difficult to engage in hand holding, cuddling, and random kissing. i don’t see the point, why do all that when you KNOW men will cheat? my faith in men is so low it’s in hell. i have been consistently failed by men since i was born and unfortunately i find myself attracted to men and wanting to date them but for what? is it better to just stop dating men? would love to hear from women who also don’t trust men but are attracted to them, how are you navigating dating and relationships with them?