I wish I had a cg :/

I keep looking for cgs (caregivers), but every time one DMs me they’re either some creepy “daddy” dude or a femboy. I just want a cis-girl cg it can’t be that hard for a , I’m honestly tired of having male cg’s in my life, that’s not even what I want. Worst part the cis girls are either somewhat toxic, ghost me/make me text first or just weirdly horny. I hate this, someone should just send me a cis girlie😞