32 [M4F] #NewEngland handsome, funny, smart and humble guy looking for secret girlfriend

Did I mention funny?

I'm always bad at these kinds of posts. I feel like I always say the same shit everyone else says because we're all here for basically the same reason: listless marriage, dead bedroom, miss the spark, not looking to change situations, etc. I think that hits about every standard reason. I really much prefer the natural flow of a conversation and getting to know eachother.

I guess for not the boring stuff about me: I'm tallish, in decent shape and getting better. I have a good career and work from home most of the times, so I have good availability to chat. I'm a little bit country and a little bit punk rock, and my Spotify playlists will usually give you whiplash. Huge animal lover. Serial hobbyist with a cemetery of unfinished projects. Shameless winter apologist.

I'm looking for somebody in a similar situation as I am, with somewhat similar availability and in it for the long haul. I think if we have these things in common it's a lot easier for us. Beyond that my only real criteria is to be a good enough conversationalist. Nobody likes to carry the conversations and it gets awkward when things feel like a job interview. In fact, I would almost rather you asked me about a time I faced challenges at work and how I overcame them. I don't have a real physical "type", but I do think attraction is important; with the whole dead bedroom situation I would like our relationship to become intimate eventually (whenever we get there). We don't need to exchange photos right away, though. But reddit chat does kind of suck and after some kind of initial click I'd like to move on to another app.

Alright I think that's all I've got. Thanks for reading my essay. Hope to hear back soon! :)