Is this a “release” for the husbands too?

I used to think that when my gf is with her regular it provided a “release” for her only. I’m starting to feel like - when it’s been awhile that she hasn’t fucked him - I crave the anxiousness and slight jealousy of it all. Not just the reclaim but the actual anxiousness while she’s with him and the buildup to it. Like a release for me too. But I’m not sure if that makes sense or if anyone else feels the same.