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I see the top cam girls not talking to anyone who’s chatting them up, even if they’re tipping, but I have to wonder, as a newer, less experienced, and inconsistent cam girl if that’s only a behavior you can afford to do once you’re established or hit a certain threshold of regulars who don’t expect interaction beyond menu orders.

Sometimes I don’t feel like talking to the guys who come in, over share their day, and then attempt to flatter me through compliments, regardless how much they’re tipping outside the menu, but especially if they’re not tipping at all.

What do y’all do? Does it matter whether we talk to them or not? Do you only talk to the tippers? If they’re not tipping but talking do you find they eventually tip if you keep talking to them?

I have tried talking to them and not talking to them and I honestly can’t tell if it makes any difference.

Posted Oct 7, 2025, 2:42 AM UTC

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