38 [M4F] #UK - British Chinese Seeking Meaningful Connection, Something Ongoing & Lasting

I am seeking something ongoing with the right person, so first and foremost am after a connection and friendship. Please be in or near the UK time zone and be open to the idea of meeting IRL if we click. I don't take drugs/smoke, have no tattoos, and only drink alcohol occasionally. Oh, and I love animals, especially birds. I currently pet sit as a hobby, so if that's something you're also interested in maybe we could even co-sit!

I'm a respectful, professional male and my interests include keeping active and cooking in my spare time. I'd like to think I'm decently attractive as I look after myself. I am into coding and playing guitar, although I suck at both, haha. If it matters I'm HK Chinese by ethnicity, 180cm tall, 75kg, HWP.

Diving deeper, I grew up in a strict and controlling household where we were expected to respect cultural and religious values. This meant I ended up marrying the first girl I kissed and dated, and have always wondered if I'd missed out during my adolescent years. With young kids now, I'm feeling even more trapped than before and would like an escape of some sort.

I WFH so can be flexible and available to chat throughout the day. To say upfront, I'm not looking to change our situation if things progress beyond online.

Let me know if you can relate? :) No ghosting please! I promise I won't disappear.