Unfortunate Host Switch (possibly)

We're using the vent flair here cuz this might get a bit venty, but also its just us bitching I guess. yep, it got venty haha.

We think we might be going through a host switch right now, our 'original' host Jay has been around a lot less recently, and I've been fronting a lot more. We know that Jinu recently became one of the hosts, which is fine. But we worry because Jay is like...our 'core' (again, he's the original, he's the one who was born into this body before all of us showed up).

He did express a few weeks ago that maybe he would want to not be host anymore, but he also has fears and anxieities about that at the same time.

We also have a lot of worries about this because of his relationship with his wife; Jay is who she fell in love with, and while she's very accepting of all of us as a system, it has been hard for her too, and she's asked us before if Jay will disappear or stop fronting (in general, we haven't mentioned this possible host switch to her yet, but we do plan to as this is pretty important to our relationship).

Maybe this is just temporary, we have had a ton of system developments recently.

Any support, maybe advice, is welcome - Ajax