Why do incels blame women for their dating failures?

Why do some people in the incel community tend to place blame on women for their difficulties with dating or relationships?

I’ve noticed that in various online spaces, some self-identified incels express frustration or anger toward women, often saying that women are responsible for their lack of romantic success. I’m curious about what drives this mindset — is it mainly personal experiences, cultural influences, mental health struggles, or something else?

I’m not trying to judge anyone; I just want to understand the psychological or social factors behind this perspective. What makes some people externalize blame toward women instead of focusing on self-improvement or other factors like social skills, confidence, or societal expectations?