Should I still go on acdate with a girl who didn't respond to my texts for over a month but finally agreed to meetup now?
There's this girl ive been texting since August. What happened is end of August we scheduled a date but neither of us were able to make it due to both being busy at the time.
So I reached out to her after trying to reschedule another and she would just say "Sorry been busy rn with personal stuff" which I understand. Anyways the last time she responded before now was August 29th to when I asked if she was free friday night she said she couldnt cause of an event.
So between August 29th and October I messaged her multiple times(like once a week) asking if she was free to hangout and got no response. Last Sunday I tried again and she finally responded apologizing again and said shes been busy working out life stuff and personal issues shes dealing with rn.
I asked her to meetup this Friday and she said yes but Im starting to wonder, should I really still go on a date with a girl that took a month to get back to me? Lol.
I already know im down bad for messaging her multiple times but I couldnt help it because Im in a serious drought right now. Havnet gotten any action since first week of August. What do you guys think?
Posted Oct 10, 2025, 2:41 PM UTC