My husband is too jealous

I love my husband dearly, he is a provider, he helps me at home, he is doing an amazing job helping me raise my two kids (10,12), we’ve been together for 7 years, and the most amazing thing is that I can really trust in him, there is no way he can cheat on me, I have access to everything he owns (he willingly accepted for me to have access to everything), cards, phone, emails, bank accounts, etc., we are always together (we work together), and I can track his whereabouts, and he tells me everything, even when someone seems to be flirting with him, even though I have access I don’t keep track of him all the time, I trust him and honestly Im not a jealous wife. The thing is, he is extremely jealous, that’s the only thing I would change from him, and honestly it gets me tired. I don’t like partying, I don’t have friends as I moved from my hometown, I never go out by myself, I don’t even dress with anything that shows, I don’t text with anyone, like literally I have zero reasons for him to believe I would cheat on him, he has gotten to a point where Im afraid to talk or be around man because anything can trigger him, and he would blame me of trying to seduce man, example: I was at my nieces birthday party, I was next to him dancing by myself and he got super mad because he said I was dancing for other man, literally no one was around me. Any situation triggers him, Im always walking on eggshells when we are at a party, reunion, or when people is around. The only time I feel calm is when I am at home and there is no one else. He even hates that I love an artist that is already dead, I cant listen to his songs. I stopped communication with my kids dad to avoid problems, I let him talk to him. There is nothing I can do and I can’t leave my man for one single defect if everything about him is amazing, any other man would have other defect. I just wish he can see I really love him and I have no intention to cheat on him, and I never gave him a reason to doubt.