[27/M] For Those who are Authentic and Kind

Friendship

Hey 😊

I’m here because I’m looking to connect with those who values authenticity, effort, and kindness. I'm not here to waste time. I'm interested in something real and grounded, without any pretenses. I’ve spent enough time in the world of small talk and superficial interactions, and I’m looking for those who shares the same mindset when it comes to building a connection. Whether you’re close by or on the other side of the world doesn’t matter to me. I believe real connections can happen anywhere, as long as both people are willing to put in the effort.

A little about me: I’m from England, 27m, and I’ve got a lot of interests that keep me grounded. I enjoy cooking and baking, not just because I like to eat, but because it’s a way for me to put effort into something I can share. There’s a certain satisfaction in the process and the outcome that you can’t really get elsewhere. Nature’s another escape for me, hiking or just being outdoors, there’s a peace in it that I don’t find in anything else. Running and working out help me stay focused, both mentally and physically. I also have a big appreciation for art in any form, written, design, interior etc. On top of all that, I spend time with my puppies, which certainly are a handful 🤪

What I value in a connection is simple: effort. I don’t expect perfection, but I want those who’s willing to be real, put in the time, and respect boundaries. If you're someone who wants a genuine connection where effort, communication, and respect are key, I’d love to hear from you. Let’s see where this can go.

If this is your first time reaching out to someone on Reddit, or you know how messy things can get here, just know that I value respect and creating a comfortable space for meaningful conversations. And if this post is up I am still looking.

And if you've made it this far, I just want to remind you, effort matters, in everything we do. If you haven’t seen results yet, don’t give up. Some people won’t appreciate your effort, and that’s okay. Keep going. Your effort will find its place, and the right people will see it. 😃

Posted Oct 10, 2025, 7:21 PM UTC

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