Looking for fic recs about Kara growing up pretending to be straight

This subreddit has a real great community and I got some amazing fic recs on my last post.

I am back in the Supercorp fandom after a good number of years away and trying to find all my old faves.

I've been trying to find one where Kara comes to Earth, realizes that her queerness is just as problematic as her alienness, and suppresses the hell out of it for years until she meets Lena and then her world turns upside down.

I could have sworn this fic existed but I can't find it! So taking any recs for similar premises!