my friend texted my ex-friend. and i'm glad the friendship is over.

throwaway acc. basically, my ex friend and i broke up a couple of months ago after a disagreement and she blocked me on everything. my friend found her reddit account (i didn't ask her to do it all) and made an anonymous account and started texting her.

the way my ex-friend threw me under the bus was shocking.

my ex friend told my friend (was anonymous account) so many negative things about me, about how i was toxic, narcisstic and someone with severe mental health issues. she also claims i was completely non-communicative during the friendship and how i did "nothing for her". only villainizing me. but not taking any accountability.

now, looking back, our friendship was not perfect and i definetly wasn't. i made lots of mistakes that i am now realizing and getting help for now. but even after everything, i never talked about her poorly to anybody at all. but she doesn't recognize how many mistakes she has made and how she made me the villain in her own story. she constantly rants about how "everyone leaves her". and now, i can understand why. even now, she has become so cold not only to me but to everyone around her. she said really rude comments online to other people. almost a complete 180 degree switch.

on one side, i'm hurt the friendship ended. but on the other side, i'm glad because now i can focus on growing postively without her.