I am disappointed in love among gay people

I am really need a help or advice. I met a guy in online game, we chatted a bit everything was great i thought i finally met someone and he had interest in me too and then all of the sudden he asked for my nudes, I was really nervous, but so into him that i send nudes (just to note it was my second time sending nudes, i warned him about that) He liked those a lot and he wanted more like i made 2 videos and it wasn’t enough i did 3rd one pushing through myself, we argued about it next day and he got mad cuz i didn’t want to send anything to him, eventually we got together again and he asked nudes and i did them but i wanted something too, but he always find a reason not to send even though he send his pics before, telling that he looks awful m etc but i didn’t care as he didn’t about my body as he said, but more about the fact that i am the one who records videos of him, over time he grew more demanding and i don’t know what to do I don’t see payback something in return at least a peek at him in clothes it would be enough for me just to make sure he is not fake some kind of but no, and now he is even more mad not listening to what i say that it is not comfortable for me to do such a stuff so fast and he gets mad we took a break for now. (Even though all those stories he told all these casual stuff he said sound very convincing. (Just to note I am disappointed in gay relationships not only because of this situation but because i tried it online before and it was terrible experience and it is almost impossible to find gay partner irl cuz of religion in the country where i live) Should i dump him or no? I just heard that a lot of gay relationships starts with sex but idk, i feel attachment to him but my brain screams otherwise.