aita for being annoyed at my (21f) girlfriend (24f) for constantly talking about taylor swift?

okay, as the title says: my girlfriend is a swiftie. i’ve never really liked taylor swift — i find her kind of annoying and hypocritical, and most of her music just doesn’t do it for me (though i’ll admit i enjoy a few songs, mostly her older stuff).

when we first started dating, she didn’t really mention taylor at all. it wasn’t until a bit later that she said she absolutely loved her. by that point i was already smitten, so i decided to just deal with it. i told her i wasn’t really a fan, but ever since then it’s like she’s made it her mission to get me to like her.

she tells me random “lore,” plays taylor’s songs on repeat, and sings them all the time. and don’t get me wrong — i love that my girlfriend sings, she has a beautiful voice — but it’s gotten to the point where it feels like every single song she sings is a taylor song. i always try to be supportive, listen when she talks, sit through her songs and not complain, but i’m honestly at my limit.

when the new album came out, i even offered to listen to it with her, thinking maybe i’d change my mind. i liked two songs. but now she’s sung them so much i think i hate them too.

a couple of days ago, we got into a fight because i saw a tweet from a swiftie criticizing billie eilish (i’m a huge billie fan), and i said i thought it was hypocritical. my girlfriend got mad and started arguing that billie’s brother finneas said the album sucked, and somehow that made it billie’s fault? i genuinely don’t get the logic. i told her i didn’t want to fight and we dropped it, but it’s been awkward since.

our relationship is amazing otherwise — she’s my favorite person — but the taylor thing is just too much. i feel bad for being annoyed.

so, aita for being tired of taylor swift? how can i broach the topic with her without it feeling like im attacking her?