Am I crazy for fixating and trying to find a person by technically cyber stalking them??

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I was on an app for meeting people and among the countless profiles I see this one of this guy. Immediately I'm like okay cool, which isn't normal usually im like meh. But then I read his profile and look at his other pictures and I'm just blown away by how perfect this dude is. Not like perfect perfect, but like the kind of person that would hopefully click well with me and that I genuinely want to pursue.

Problem, the site has many inactive accounts and he's never replied to any DMs. Sure maybe he just swipes them away, but there's also the possibility that he just doesn't have the app anymore. So then I'm upset cause I just want to pursue this person like a passionate poet of old, but I literally can't.

I have very little information to go off of from his profile and his images, but if I really buckle down I thinks I could find him. Problem though, I feel a little insane. Mostly because I saw a meme comparing Scorpios with a crush to that guy from You.

It's not like I'm gonna kill him or something, just like reach out and then get a definitive answer. Sure it may all be futile, but where's the passion for romance?? The yearning for adventure??

I'm just fumbling a bit though and was wondering what other people would think of my situation or whatever this is.

Posted Oct 10, 2025, 7:25 PM UTC

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