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I get upset when people don't want to hang out with me. Can it be related to my parents divorce and fearing abandonment?

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I usually try to get people to hang out. When I don't hear an answer it makes me feel anxious and I don't know why they aren't answering. Some people have told me I need to stop calling or texting so much. I guess I'm being that annoying needy person. I wonder if it's related to my parents divorce and fearing that I'll have the same kind of abandonment if people don't want to hang out with me. I think it's on a very subconscious level. I don't know if that's the reason but I feel it is.

Posted Oct 10, 2025, 7:25 PM UTC

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