39 [M4F] #online nerdy fit daddy looking for nerdy fit little

Hi folks! I'm A, I'm 39, 5'9", super fit and active. My hobbies include lifting a lot of weights, spin/rowing, my two cats, reading, gaming, and a bit of game development. At work, I'm a software engineer. I'm also a huge "car guy" and go to car events often. I don't drink or smoke but it's ok if you do in moderation. Politically I'm a leftist.

My personality is pretty easy going, although I love rules and tend to be strict if they're broken. I believe in establishing a set of rules then ensuring you live to the fullest within them. I love helping someone grow and be their absolute best they can be.

I'm looking for a little, 28+ although not opposed to slightly outside that, that is soft, loving, affectionate, nerdy, motivated, and active in the gym so we can talk shop! An experienced little is a plus but not required. I love a lot of control but also someone I can talk to as equals as well.

I'm not in a rush to jump into anything and enjoy establishing a flirty, cute relationship first before heading into a full blown dynamic, if that makes sense.

hope to hear from you!