People Insta-locking Duelist

I wanted to post about this to reach my people.

I am a dedicated healer and vanguard main, a job imposed on me by the community since i basically never get the chance to duelist. I bought an iron man skin recently and i straight up cant play him because every time i try to take a duelist, i have 3 or 4 other people joining me. Then, the solo tank or healer also switch off and at that point the game is already over.

Who else had a similar experience. Am I just profondly unlucky ? Because this has been fairly frequent and consistent throughout the seasons. It’s very frustrating.