Love/Lust or just boredom/loneliness

Hi Redditors, I have been using reddit before but this is a new account and with the title above readers might get a little confused but some of you may imagine the experience that you had in the past or the one you want to. I just want to speak from my heart so anyone who feels opinionated feel free but don't care.

Im 27 male bengali and a bit extroverted one especially with people who is slightly mature and have a good mind and heart but not very biased unless it's annoying. So I grew up in a very conditioned and conservative environment but my learning and lifestyle came from western roots so I have a mix of wild mischief and chivalry and kindness. I also come from fairly good looking family with few relatives from western countries so I'm also kind of known to cultures.

But here I am not to speak about culture but curious to understand the relationship context. I have been in touch with girls from young age who likes being SBs and woman till the age of 41 and I tend to be open and honest with people to give them the freedom to express but I don't feel like anyone has any genuine interest or honesty. People are so prone to take advantage. Alot of things happening here comes from western ideals but still there the society is pluralistic and open and people still approach communicate . There are boundaries but where are those here. Woman are acting double standards and Men are acting like mindless prey.

I have had relationship and hooked up once but never lied or cheated nor was I tall or had broad shoulders neither extremely rich. It is because I made them feel special and comfortable I did my human part and encouraged them to be themselves or even better.

Sbs and paid couple please understand your situation while I respect some of your needs and respect your kindness, I have encountered some pathetic ones who are full of themselves. It is you who is a commodity here. The highest bidders will be men. Plus you have made it easier for scamster and people trust very less so your own market is in threat whosoever is left genuine. You simply don't understand when someone really tries to respect you and build connection there is an effort that goes that can't be bought.

Singles and married female- Really appreciate your boldness and courage. Based on my experience with conversing I understand sometimes that from board room to bedroom you too crave for the right kind of appreciation abit of tease and a person at times who can just make you feel wanted. But should you knock the door out of boredom or loneliness? I get it it's difficult to find the person who might be able to read you and just pour a little bit of excitement into your existing life, some of us men feel the same way but I feel like there is a lot of stigma. People randomly come with specific needs and disappear so just reflect upon what you are doing

Finally Guys please try to mature up and understand the social game. Some of the comments I read makes me feel like you have convinced yourself to own your rizz or whatever but confusing intimacy for lust is idiotic. Simps don't even bother reading but genuine guys I want you to raise the standard so high don't even bother if these woman don't take interest. I am groomed by dating coach I'll tell you just observe and understand the language the behaviour you will shine be honest and respectful.