NHI and selective reveal/reality shifting

Has anyone presented the idea that NHI may have tech or ability to shift reality according to the observer. To generate a specific timeline where they reveal to some people by generating a version of reality according to the subjects level of comfort or readiness. For example someone who is interested will live a version where disclosure and contact happens as opposed to someone who cant handle it or is not interested and just wants to raise a family and live their life carries on with a totally different version where it never happens for them. It would explain a lot of narrative out there, I was just wondering if its been discussed and if anyone is interested in hearing more along these lines