
I saw this hair reel and got taken aback by how much this girl reminded me of my younger self and all the things I didn't like about my face.

I look a little better now that I'm older, my face naturally lost some of that baby fat (tho now it's sagging into jowls but that's another issue), and I had to get very lean overall to not have a chubby face but it still looks heavy compared to my body.

But when I was younger like teens and twenties I looked very similar to this. I never had any male attention. I worked a busy mall position all through college and no one has ever flirted or approached and that was well before the metoo era. I have a very similar face shape and sort of unintentionally slightly sad expression due to mouth shape, I also wore glasses 24/7 cause I can't do contacts and my hair is similarly fine. That said, I feel I tried making myself look slightly better because I always wore makeup and tried to style my hair so it had a bit more body and I was relatively slim and dressed well. 

But still - looking at this girl now, it hits me that there's something about her face that probably doesn't invite male attention. And if you look just at her features there's nothing horribly deformed or offensive about her, I'd say she's average. But it's like, there are average girls like the girl next door type who are still considered attractive enough for the average man; and then there's average like this, which seems to act as man repellent for some reason. Lots of men claim that any average woman is flooded with male attention but from my own experience that's certainly not the case. 

Can any men weigh in, am I right about this? Would you look twice at a girl like this in public? What is it about this type that puts guys off? Or am I off based on that and guys would find her cute? 


Wdyt about faces like these