I think I’m at my breaking point

Me 29HLM and my wife 29LLF. Won’t go into a lot of detail because it’s a long story and I’m just trying to vent right now. But basically we’re now 1 full year of no sex.

On numerous occasions I’ve thought about the idea of divorce, but never thought about it too deeply. Like it’s just a thought that crosses my mind, “this is an option”, but never anything more than that. But for the first time ever, I’m actually strongly considering this as my way forward.

Don’t get me wrong, I love my wife, she is my best friend and I truly thought she was my soulmate. But I just don’t think we are compatible in a romantic sense. I think after a divorce I could still love her and cherish her like I do any other friend, but the romantic part will be dead. It already feels dead. I truly don’t think I can do this any longer, and I feel like the only thing holding me back from divorce is how messy it is. We don’t have kids, but I did sponsor her into this country. She left everything behind to be with me, idk what she would go back to. And our puppy, I don’t think I could keep our puppy by myself since I work too much. I would feel evil to get rid of her since she’s so attached to us now.

I don’t know man. I feel so stuck. But I can’t do this shit anymore