What do you do when you finally give in and start to pray?

You know when you are convinced you are really really right? You keep having the same argument with your husband for YEARS. It is clear you are not agreeing on it ever.

I’ve thrown my hands up. I’m hurt and disappointed that he won’t see my view. I don’t think he’s living up to his commitment as a husband. It’s making me lose respect for him and harming our relationship.

After FIVE years of arguing about creating a proper estate plan that regards me as his wife and not his son’s sibling I am done arguing. The only thing i have not done is pray.

I can do that. But what do I do with my husband in the meantime? He has said some awful things to me, mentioned divorce and just dismissed all my concerns. I’m hurt and disappointed.

I’m tired of arguing, being hurt and being the one to approach him with an apology .

So what do I do? I pray and then what, make him some eggs? How can I just be like nothing is wrong and do life as usual?