Hate that transness is associated with being really quirky in white theyfab spaces in my area

I go to this queer youth club like every Friday and I hang out with this group of theyfabs sometimes and holy shit I feel so excluded cuz I’m not white and amab, and they like romanticize being trans when this part of my identity carries so much of trauma and pain. They really think it’s the quirky queer subculture when they have no idea what it’s really like to suffer through the wrong puberty and live with dysphoria