m4f #nc # charlotte, northlake - looking to connect, please excuse the semi-coherent rant.

To start I'm a 38 year old, 6'2", in shape(no six pack. Not sorry.😉) white guy.

I have my life together, and yes, I'm married. I currently feel like a widower and a full time care taker. I would love to find someone who can understand the complexity of the situation and spend some time relaxing with me.

I'm well spoken, polite, laidback and have a broad knowledge base and range of interest.

I tend to be a people pleaser, and will probably wait for you to make the first move. Once you do be prepared.

I'm available fairly regularly and and serious. Worst case scenario shoot me a message. I'd love to chat.

Happy redditing!