Transparent

My wife agreed to run Locktober this year. It started a bit in late on the 6th but I was told we could use some early days of November. After one day se told me that she was starting to like the challenge and the situation even if we’re quite new to the chastity cage. Actually I wore it for few days in a row multiple times. But there was no real interest in her side. Now she declared her good feelings about the challenge. Unfortunately after a single licking the very first locked night, she seems to forget that she caged me. Of course I do not have key and I do. I even don’t know where it is hidden. Since then now words on the locking, no teasing and not even a touch. It seems nothing happened. And I’m going crazy because I’m locked 24/7. What should I do? When she locked me she said now is my Mistress and that I have to do what I’m told but now in reality she makes me feel transparent. May you give me suggestions?